A steady guide for the first 30 days after a cancer diagnosis

The Big C: Preparation for Treatment

When everything feels uncertain, this gives you something solid to hold onto, one step at a time.

Instant access, take it at your own pace

Created by Barry Du Bois, based on real lived experience as a son, a husband, and a patient.

This guide is for you if:

  • You’ve just received a diagnosis and don’t know where to start

  • Your mind feels like it’s racing ahead

  • You feel overwhelmed by information and decisions

  • You want something simple, calm and clear to hold onto

There is a moment after a diagnosis where everything shifts.

It’s not loud.
It’s not dramatic.
But it’s heavy.

Your mind starts racing.
Trying to understand.
Trying to prepare.
Trying to hold everything at once.

And somewhere in all of that, it can feel like you need to figure everything out immediately.

But you don’t.

This guide is here to help you steady yourself in those early days, before treatment begins, when everything still feels uncertain.

You don't need to solve the next 5 years.

You only need to steady the next few days.

Because the first 30 days are not just physical.

They are mental.

And when your mind is steadier, everything becomes clearer.

This is not a medical guide.

This is a practical, grounded guide to help you:

Feel less overwhelmed
Focus on what actually matters
Take one step at a time
Create a sense of calm when everything feels uncertain

It’s simple.
It’s steady.
And it’s designed for this exact moment.

  • Feel less overwhelmed

  • Focus on what actually matters

  • Take one step at a time

  • Create a sense of calm when everything else feels uncertain

It’s simple.
It’s steady.
And it’s designed for this exact moment.

Inside this guide, you’ll have a clear, simple structure to follow…

  • The first 72 hours
    What to focus on and what to avoid so you don’t overwhelm yourself

  • Getting organised
    A simple way to keep everything in one place so your mind can rest

  • Preparing your body
    Small, realistic actions that support you without pressure

  • Steadying your mind
    How to stop your thoughts from racing ahead and bring them back to today

  • Focusing on what you can control
    So you feel more grounded and capable

  • Setting up support around you
    Without feeling like you’re asking too much

  • Preparing for treatment
    Simple steps now that make everything easier laterhow to talk to your children in an honest but safe way

It’s not about getting it perfect.
It’s about having something steady to come back to.

Barry Du Bois has lived this experience from multiple sides.

As a son
As a husband
And as a patient himself

This guide comes from real moments, real conversations, and real understanding of what those early days feel like.

It’s not about having all the answers.

It’s about helping you take the next step.

Preparation won’t remove the diagnosis.

But it can reduce the fear.

And when fear settles, clarity begins.

This guide is something you can return to each day.

Not to overwhelm yourself.
But to steady yourself.

You’ll receive:

  • A clear 30 day preparation guide

  • Simple checklists and prompts

  • Space to organise your thoughts and questions

A calm structure you can follow day by day

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Less than the cost of a takeaway meal
But something you can return to every day

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You don’t need to be ready.

You just need somewhere to begin.

Barry Du Bois

Many know him as a designer, builder and television host from the multi-Logie-winning program, The Living Room, Barry's greatest influence has come through his life’s journey — confronting injury, grief, depression and two separate cancer diagnoses, and choosing to turn those experiences into strength, service and leadership.

Barry Du Bois is a Leukaemia Foundation ambassador, a long-standing board member of RUOK?, and a passionate advocate for carers, community wellbeing and the power of meaningful conversations.

He has dedicated his life to helping Australians rebuild resilience, strengthen workplaces, and lead with kindness, curiosity and courage.

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